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Posted on March 23, 2019 at 9:45 AM

What’s your knee-jerk reaction when someone hurts you with lies or gossip or ridicule?  If you are human, it would be to retaliate.   Fortunately, as believers we have the Holy Spirit, to help us overcome our human nature.   It takes a great deal of humility and faith to trust God and not retaliate when we are under attack.  When we are wounded, God tells us to trust Him to handle it, in His way and in His time.  Not always easy!

But letting go is clearly the teaching of Christ.  When is the last time you read the Sermon on the Mount found in Matthew chapters 5 to 7?  This is not any typical sermon.  And it was not preached in a church.   It is simply Jesus teaching to a crowd of followers, on a hillside.

The sermon can be summed up as being a message of what it really means to follow Jesus.  Simply put, it means to live a life of love and selflessness just like Jesus did.  There are a lot of "hard to swallow" and hard to follow teachings about the exemplary conduct expected of Jesus’ followers.  We are to live from a much higher standard than what the world teaches and expects.  In fact, sometimes what is expected is completely opposite to the teaching of society.

For example, Jesus said to love and pray for our enemies.   When is the last time you did that?  It just doesn’t seem normal does it?   And it isn’t for the unbeliever.   But when we truly have the character of Jesus shining in our lives, it is very normal indeed.

In this sermon, Jesus addresses our common human frailties of pride, anger, worry, jealousy and greed.  He challenges us to not blend in with the crowd, living for ourselves with no desire for godliness.  Instead, we are to stand out as a follower of Jesus, reflecting His values and obeying His teaching.  We are to turn the other cheek, give to those who ask and always forgive!  This is all so contrary to our natural human tendencies.

But Jesus entered our world and showed us how to live.   And He gave us the Holy Spirit to help us succeed.  Matthew 5 to 7 are words well worth reading over and over again.   Because once the words are embedded in our minds we will know each day and in each situation, “What Jesus Would Do”, so that we can do it too.


Posted on March 5, 2019 at 9:35 AM

The Bible makes it clear that the condition of our heart is very important to God.


       Matthew 6:21   For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.


       Proverbs 4:23   Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

       Matthew 5:8    Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.


       1 Samuel 16:7   Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.


There is nothing more important than who you are on the inside. The world teaches us that what we own, what we accomplish and the image we present is what is important. But God teaches us that none of that matters. God only looks at the heart. That’s where our life is.


Jesus gave some powerful teachings about the heart. He said that lust is the same as committing adultery and that hatred is the same as committing murder. Why? Because it is a matter of the heart. Sin always starts in the heart (Matt. 15:19) and God wants our hearts to be pure.

Our actions, attitudes, words and desires all originate in our heart and become who we are and how we live (Matthew 15:18,19)


So how do we guard our hearts? How do we keep our heart pure?


It certainly doesn’t come without some effort and struggle. Even though as believers, the Holy Spirit lives within us, we will at times fight with our sinful nature. Paul talks about this struggle in Romans 7.


There are 5 key tools that God provides to help us guard our hearts. But we need personal diligence and discipline to be truly effective.


       • The power and ministry of the Holy Spirit living within us

       • The power and truth of God’s Word in the Bible

       • The power of humble confession of sin in prayer

       • The trials we experience that test our faith and grow our character

       • The ministry of other believers to each of us


Our character is found in our heart. Our true success in life is found in our heart. Our love for God and others is found in our heart. Never underestimate the importance of the condition of your heart!


Posted on February 2, 2019 at 1:05 AM

None of us are immune to times of discouragement.  It’s a common poison that quickly weakens our faith in God.   It is perhaps Satan’s favourite tool because even mature Christians can easily succumb to its temptation.  Well known pastors even admit to struggling with discouragement when their idealism and enthusiasm is not shared by the church leaders and members around them.

Our Bibles tell us of great men of God who became discouraged.  Job, Elijah, Peter and Jeremiah each became discouraged with people, life’s circumstances, themselves and even God.  And these men did what each of us tend to do.  They gave in to their feelings and for a time felt sorry for themselves.

But God does not want us to give in.   Instead, God commands us, “Don’t let your hearts be troubled, Believe in God, Believe in Me” (John 14:1).  God wants us to fight back with faith.   Discouragement can have a positive outcome if we allow it to strengthen our faith.


Here are some helpful steps:

     1. Honestly and fully express your hurt feelings to God in prayer.

     2. Examine your thoughts because it is always our thoughts that lead to our feelings and sometimes what we tell ourselves is not true.   Both         Elijah and Jeremiah were discouraged by faulty thinking (1Kings 19, Lam. 3).

     3. Seek God’s eternal perspective for your discouraging situation.  Believe that He has a plan and knows what He is doing.  Job had no idea what was going on between God and Satan in regards to his circumstances.   And sometimes we will never know either.  But God expects us to still trust Him and believe in His eternal goodness.  This is where the fire truly refines us and makes our faith strong and mature.

     4. Soothe your soul with the Word of God.   Meditate on and claim God’s promises.  Draw near to God and He will draw near to you (James 4:8).

     5. Keep serving God.  When we get discouraged we tend to withdraw.  But there is healing in service.  When we give we are blessed.  Elijah was told by God to get back to work and ministry soon after asking God to let him die (1 Kings 19).

Life is not always fair or fun!   But we are not alone!  Jesus is walking beside us and He has experienced every hardship and discouragement we have ever known (Heb. 4:14-16).  1 Peter 5:7 says to, “Cast all your cares on Him because He cares for you”.  Jesus said, “In this world you will have trouble.  But take heart!   I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).

When you are down, look up and see Jesus!


Posted on January 1, 2019 at 11:20 AM

The top 3 New Year's Resolutions are to eat healthier, exercise more and lose weight.   There is certainly nothing wrong with these resolutions.   I have even made them myself.

So what does God have to say about them?   Read 1 Timothy 4:8 which says, "Training your body helps you in some ways but serving God helps you in every way by bringing you blessings in this life and in the future life too."

I am frequently reminded that the Bible, which is God's very own words to us, has something to teach us on a vast number of topics - even New Year's Resolutions.   After all, the Bible is the #1 best seller of all time and has survived 2000 years, despite the efforts of many to wipe it out of existence.

God knows that eating healthier, exercising more and losing excess weight are all good things.   But God is quick to point out what is most important in life... serving Him!   And how do we do that?  By serving others!  Jesus taught a parable saying, "I tell you the truth, anything you did for even the least of my people here, you also did for me". (Matthew 25:40)

So perhaps we should make our New Year's Resolutions about doing good things for the people around us?   Perhaps we should work hard this year at learning the heart of Jesus!   He came to earth, "not to be served but to serve and to give His life a ransom for many". (Matthew 20:28)

The world likes to repeatedly teach us that life and happiness is all about putting ourselves first.   This is the exact opposite of the teachings of Jesus.

Let's start the year 2019 with resolutions that put other people first as we keep our eyes and ears open for opportunities to serve one another.


Posted on December 12, 2018 at 8:40 AM

For many, Christmas is a much-anticipated season of celebration and festivities.  But for some it is a dreaded season of loneliness and despair.

Suicide rates are highest over the Christmas season.   Why?   Because many are alone for Christmas.   Or are missing the loved one that died recently.   Or are struggling financially and are unable to afford the typical Christmas traditions.

We sing Christmas carols about good cheer and good will towards all men.   Those words can sting in the hearts of those who are sad at Christmas.

But we can bring hope and love to those who are struggling through the Christmas Season.  First we have to find them.   If we each keep our eyes and ears open and pray that God give us an opportunity to brighten someone’s heart this Christmas, we can make a difference.

A simple way to help, is to give financially to charities that deliver smiles every Christmas.   They are easy to find in our communities and even online.

But even better is a personal touch.  Visit a family in need just before Christmas with a large gift basket.   Or invite someone who is alone to your Christmas dinner.   Go Christmas carolling at a Senior’s home or hospital.   Dress up as Santa for kids at an orphanage.  The ideas are endless.  And the blessings for them, and even you, will go into eternity.

Christmas – good cheer and good will toward all men!


Posted on December 6, 2018 at 1:30 PM

Most people celebrating Christmas do not celebrate the Christ of Christmas.

Christmas has become a very secular holiday full of commercialism and traditions that have nothing to do with Jesus. There is nothing wrong with the gift giving, Santa Claus and family celebrations.

But for Christians, it is a day to primarily celebrate the best gift ever given… The baby Jesus. God incarnate. Emmanuel, meaning God with us!

God in His immense love, took on human flesh with a plan to pay the penalty for our sins so that we can be reconciled with Him and have eternal life. Christmas is the beginning of a true story of amazing love. The love of God for all mankind. Including YOU!


Most people will celebrate Christmas without giving Jesus a single thought. But at Christmas, believers ponder the enormity of that gift, celebrate it and give thanks!

What will you do with the Christ of Christmas this year? Do you know Jesus as your Lord and Saviour? Have you personally accepted the best gift ever given? If you would like to, then please email us at info@agapesancarlos.com. Your life will never be the same!


Merry Christmas!


Posted on November 27, 2018 at 1:35 AM

Rick Warren has said, “When you live in the light of eternity, trouble just doesn’t bother you as much anymore!”

The Bible clearly teaches that we will face many trials. God knows that it is in trials that our faith and character grow.


The trials of life are inevitable but discouragement with the trials is not. How we respond to trials is solely up to us. It is our perspective on trials that is crucial. This involves having an understanding of their purpose and viewing them in the light of eternity.

We need to have a heavenly perspective, to live in the light of eternity.

A heavenly perspective is a mind-focus. We are told in Colossians 3, to keep our mind and spirit focused on our eternal home with Jesus. The benefit is more peace and less stress. More joy and less despair.

Col. 3:1-2  says, "Since you were raised from the dead with Christ, aim at what is in heaven, where Christ is sitting at the right hand of God. Think only about the things in heaven, not the things on earth."

A heavenly perspective involves reflection. When the troubles of this world cause discouragement and despair, it is time to ponder the life and death and resurrection of Jesus. There we will find hope.

Heb. 12:2 says, " Let us look only to Jesus, the One who began our faith and who makes it perfect. He suffered death on the cross. But he accepted the shame as if it were nothing because of the joy that God put before him. And now he is sitting at the right side of God’s throne."

A heavenly perspective requires faith. Faith is fundamental in our relationship with Jesus. It is a faith that is rewarded with an eternity in heaven. And it is a faith that gives us peace and courage to persevere while here on earth.

2 Cor. 4:18 says, " We set our eyes not on what we see but on what we cannot see. What we see will last only a short time, but what we cannot see will last forever."

Only when we focus on the Prize – eternal life with Jesus – are we living in the light of eternity!


Posted on November 9, 2018 at 12:35 AM

I’ve always been told that Satan likes to attack us the most, at our weak spots… areas in our lives where we tend to fail again and again.   Perhaps in our spending habits, or personal bitterness, or misplaced priorities, or a tendency to gossip or a critical spirit.  The list goes on.  We all have sins we are most prone to succumb to.

But recently I heard a pastor teach the opposite.  He said that Satan is most likely to attack us at our strengths, not our weaknesses.  Why?  Because our strengths lead to pride. So, he said we need to beware of our successes because it is in those successes that we are most likely to forget God (J.D. Greear)

Pride can be so subtle, can’t it?   Nobody tends to see themselves as being prideful.   Yet with a closer, more honest look, we all know that we have experienced times of personal, sinful pride.

Do you know why God does not bless many of us with wealth?  Because with prosperity most people become self-sufficient.  Clearly God often tests each of us with times of adversity and those times are hard but we usually make it through.  However, the test of prosperity is not so easy for many.   It is this test that most of us will fail.  Because prosperity makes life easy.  So, we don’t need God and we quickly forget about Him.

Thank God today for a life that is not easy and keeps you dependant on Him, seeking Him and loving Him!


Posted on October 31, 2018 at 11:05 AM

God doesn’t call the brave. He makes brave the called!

God doesn’t need your abilities. He needs your availability!

Time and time again the Scriptures speak of ordinary people that God made great!  Men like unheard of Gideon, shepherd boy David, mistreated Joseph, fishermen from Galilee and an orphan named Esther.

God made leaders out of stuttering Moses, denying Peter, adulterer David, youthful Jeremiah and persecuting Saul.

Even a woman named Deborah, a prophetess, God equipped to lead the Israelites in battle, while the leader of the army, Barak, would only go to war if she went with him.

God repeatedly teaches us in the Bible that it is not about who we are - but about who He is!

God says He will never leave us and with His power we can do great things.  We all face fears.  But do we live daily with the full realization of God’s promise to always be with us?  Do we ever need to be afraid if we fully believe in His presence and amazing power in our lives?

When you hear God’s calling, you will experience fear.  Be ready for it and respond to it with courage grounded in the assurance of God’s promise to be with you and the realization that God is always bigger than our fears!

Ask God what He is calling you to do because God has placed a calling on each of our lives.  Most of us choose the easy path.  We stay in our comfort zone and fail to live out God’s calling.  And then we miss out on God’s perfect plan for us.   But it’s never too late!

Step out in faith and obedience to God’s voice!


Posted on September 27, 2018 at 1:20 PM

Christian author, Gary Chapman, writes the following in his book, “The Love as a Way of Life”:

In the later centuries of the Roman Empire – and the early centuries of the Christian era – the once-proud empire suffered a series of                     setbacks.  Wars, waves of invasion by Germanic tribes, and devastating epidemics led to a fractured, failing society.   

In the face of terrible conditions, political elites and their non-Christian priests fled the cities. T he only functioning social network left was the church, which provided basic nursing care to Christians and non-Christians alike, along with hope that transcended death.   Even pagans acknowledged that early Christians were as kind to their neighbors as they would be to family.  What made the church so powerful during that time was not artful persuasion but serving others with love….

As history shows, entire cultures can change as a result of the Christian community practicing the love of Christ.

Ponder how you can influence your community by practicing the love of Christ through random acts of kindness.  Then begin!



Posted on September 22, 2018 at 3:20 PM

The Bible repeatedly tells us that God is a jealous God. What does this mean? Isn’t jealousy a sin.? So, if God is holy and perfect, how can He be jealous?

There is a righteous jealousy just as there is a righteous anger.

The answer to this conundrum is found by looking at the context of the use of the word in the Bible. When God describes himself as jealous in the Bible, it is when his children, the Israelites, chose to follow other gods and worship idols.

Jealousy is only a sin when it is over something that does not belong to us. As believers, we commit our hearts and lives to God. And we belong to Him. He is first in our lives and the object of our primary devotion. God is jealous for our love that belongs to Him.

So, when we mix up our priorities and put other people or things or goals at the top of our list, God becomes jealous. When we make for ourselves earthly idols in place of God, He has a righteous jealousy for us to come back to Him.

God’s jealousy is actually a rich display of His endless and devoted love for each one of us!

God is jealous for you! Are you jealous for Him?


Posted on September 16, 2018 at 7:45 PM

I recently read the book, “Jesus Outside The Lines”, which gave me a fresh perspective of Jesus and how he related to the culture of His day that was strongly opposed to His message. Jesus did very well at what I and many Christians today find so very difficult.

Daniel Darling said, “A certain ugliness accompanies the way evangelicals often do cultural engagement. It is a gospel-free, score-keeping partisanship long on fear and short on hope.”

Modern society with multiplying and widening cultural divides can be disheartening for the evangelical Christian. How do we introduce the gospel in such an anti-Christ environment? It seems difficult at times to co-exist in a world that sometimes opposes the core of our being so strongly.

So, as Christians we sometimes choose to seek safety in our little cocoon of Christian fellowship. But is this what Jesus did? Reading our Bibles, we learn that Jesus made a habit of socializing with the unbelievers and the sinners. His words and actions are full of love, not divisiveness.

Even within Christian circles, opposing views on politics, money, the poor and worship are held, and divide us as believers. Division was never the way of Christ. Jesus led with compassion. It is, indeed, possible for two Christians to hold opposing views on a topic without either of them compromising their faith.

In his book, “Jesus Outside The Lines”, Pastor Scott Sauls addresses these ongoing conflicts of our modern day, resulting from people choosing sides. Sauls asks, “Is it possible to profoundly disagree with someone and love that person deeply at the same time? Is it possible to hold convictions and simultaneously embrace those who reject your deep convictions?”

His answer in the book, is an overwhelming, Yes! He encourages the believer to, without compromising his faith, try to understand the thoughts of those with differing views to establish healthy communication. He encourages compassionate dialogue, not critical. Sauls uses countless Scripture to present his conclusion that we can, in fact, lovingly co-exist in a society full of people with opposing views. After all, that is exactly what Jesus did.

Sauls, courageously and compassionately challenges even difficult subjects in his book, like sexual ethics and the reality of hell. There is no Christian compromise in this book, only Christ-like compassion!

Christian Ethicist, Andrew Spencer says, “This book represents the beginning of a deep conversation that needs to happen in the gospel community whose ideas are increasingly demonized.”

I wholeheartedly recommend this book for any Christian who chooses to be more and more Christ-like in their everyday interactions with both believers and non-believers that Jesus deeply loves.


Posted on September 3, 2018 at 7:05 PM

Personal anxiety is a bad habit that is paralyzing for some, annoying for others and practically non-existent for a few.  We are all wired so differently.

As Christians, the Bible tells us to not be anxious.  We are also told that when we are anxious we are lacking in faith.  Whoa!!  Wait a minute!  Who needs a guilt trip like that, right?  After all, isn’t it normal and simply human to sometimes be anxious?  Of course, it is!  But as Christians, we are taught to immediately take that anxiety to God in prayer and release it.   And why?  Because God knows how harmful anxiety is for our body and our well-being.

For each of us, there are harmful traits we have that are deeply rooted.  Anxiety is one but how about a critical spirit, a selfish spirit, pride, anger and bitterness, procrastination, negativity and perfectionism.  The list goes on.  Because we are human.  But it is important for each of us to recognize and acknowledge our weaknesses so we can then work to overcome them.  It’s not impossible.  Nothing is impossible with God!


But it does involve work on our part.  I have to replace my bad habits contributing to my harmful trait, with good habits.  With time and daily practice, I will become more of the child God calls me to be, full of the fruit of His Spirit.  It is my habits that define my character!


Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!”

As believers, our goal is to daily display the Fruits of the Holy Spirit.  And with God’s help we can do this and overcome the harmful human traits we all naturally possess.   Join me in building more good habits today.


Posted on August 22, 2018 at 8:35 PM

Do you know how valuable and precious you are to God?

The Bible has lots to say about this.   1 John 3:1 says, “The Father has loved us so much that we are called children of God. And we really are His children!”

The Bible talks about God’s children being the apple of His eye.  It also tells us that our names are engraved in the palm of God’s hand.   And the Bible tells us that God carries us, like a father carries a child when we are weak and tired.   Even more, God knows the number of hairs on each of our heads.  Jesus says we are more precious than the countless sparrows God cares for.   Best of all, the Bible teaches that there is no greater love than someone laying down their life for another.

Well, guess what?  That is exactly what God did for each of us!  Jesus, the Son of God, died for our sins, in our place, a horrific death on a cross, all because of love!   That’s how precious we are to God.  That’s how much God loves us.   That is a fatherly love that would do anything for his child.

Picture the beauty of His love for you right now.   Ponder the wonder of His grace, that God Almighty would value you and I that much.  He so deeply desires an intimate “Father and child” relationship with each one of us.  Even if you were the only person on planet earth, God would have died for you alone to show you His immense love!

Know and celebrate God’s personal and intimate love for you today!   Recognize how valuable and precious you are to Him.  It’s a gift!  It can never be earned by anything you do!  It is always freely given!   That’s just who God is!  Amazing, right?


Posted on August 16, 2018 at 4:15 PM

Why are tithing and Christian service hot and sensitive subjects for some people?   Was it in the early church?   Not that I can see.  People gave generously to make sure needs were always met.  Today, it seems people want to hoard most of their extra time and money for themselves.  I hear some Christians getting offended by any preaching on giving, yet the preaching is straight from the Bible.


Stewardship often reveals our beliefs about God and ourselves!  If we are generous in giving of our time, our works and our money, then we likely have a good understanding of who we are, compared to the Almighty God; and a good recognition that everything ultimately comes from Him.


If we are hoarding our time, our works and our money for our own good pleasure then we are ultimately saying that we are self-sufficient, we don’t need God and we don’t owe God anything.  Giving of our time, our works and our money is a demonstration of our love for God, our humility before God and our acknowledgement that all that we are and have is only because of Him.

God multiplies whatever we give Him.  Whether it be our time, our money or our energy.  We won’t run out. (Mal 3:10, Luke 18:29-30).

Remember - You can never out-give God!



Posted on July 21, 2018 at 8:45 PM



My soul was created to soar.

A longing within that needs to be stirred.

Fears ground me, seeking safety and security.

But I long to soar.

I climb mountains to reach the heavens.

I watch the eagle in majestic flight and dream.

Freedom. Strength. Serenity.

How I long to soar.

The earth below is full of Turmoil. Strife. Pain.

The load is heavy. The journey seems long.

Hope fades, if I let it.

But God calls me.

I will soar. On wings like eagles.

Because my hope is in the Lord.

God will renew my strength.



                                              (Isaiah 40:31)


Posted on July 12, 2018 at 1:10 PM

I’ve heard people say that they believe everybody is basically good inside.  And for those who are evil, they are a product of their environments.  Yet the Bible does not seem to support this opinion.   Ecclesiastes 3:16-18 says that people are like animals.  They are inhumane.

I wonder what the victims of the sex trade industry, or the people of a nation run by an oppressive dictator, or those raised in abusive homes would say?   Do they think that generally all people have an innate goodness inside of them?  Not likely!

Think of a young child, who instinctively and selfishly wants to be the center of attention and needs to be taught right from wrong.   Yes, they are as cute and adorable as can be.  But is their human nature good?   Or do we have to teach them what good is and teach them to share and teach them to not be selfish?   Of course, we do.

If we were all good by nature, we would not have needed Jesus to come and die for our sins!

My parents can tell you that as a child, I did not want to be good and that I seemed to enjoy being bad.  Even as an adult now, I try to be good and fair and loving but often sadly fail.  I need God every day to help me overcome my human nature of sin.

The Bible makes it clear, that we are all sinners (Rom. 3:23) and we all need a Saviour (Rom. 5:8).  Someday, God will judge every person for the injustices committed against others (Rom. 14:10b).

Without God in the world, injustice prevails and goodness is obsolete.  Only God is good by nature!


Posted on July 3, 2018 at 11:00 AM

So, we covered the first 5 characteristics in the last blog and the intro to this topic in the blog before that.  Scroll back and find those blogs if you missed them.  Here are the final 5 characteristics of a healthy church according to today’s experts.

1. A healthy church preaches salvation from sin.  Fire and brimstone does not need to be heard from the pulpit every week but certainly preaching the wrath of God over our sin should not be avoided.  Sometimes we need to squirm in our seats, feeling convicted by the Holy Spirit.  The entire Scriptures need to be preached, not just the parts that make us feel good.  We will love the grace of God all the more, when we see the depth of our sin and how much our sin hurts our Heavenly Father.

2. A healthy church is not poisoned by gossip and division.  Gossip can divide and severely harm a church very quickly.  Healthy members don’t allow gossip to exist in the church.  It is dealt with swiftly and biblically to protect the health of the church.  Unity is crucial in the body of Christ and gossip leads to division.  Instead of talking about people we need to talk to them, and resolve the differences and miscommunication.

3. A healthy church deals with conflict biblically.  Conflict is inevitable in the world and in the church.  We are all human so the church like anywhere else, will have people getting offended, sinning and having disagreements.  Sometimes sinful actions require loving discipline as outlined in Scripture. If these conflicts are not dealt with biblically they become deep rooted and infect the church.

4. A healthy church recognizes that, sometimes, spiritually unhealthy individuals cannot stay.  This is a sad and very difficult situation.  But if unhealthy people persist in their spiritually unhealthy choices they will infect the church, causing overall poor church health to multiply.  The unhealthy individuals must want to become healthy.  Unfortunately, they sometimes become blind to their poor health and refuse any correction or discipline. Once again, the Bible gives us clear actions to take at this point, which involves the individuals being asked to leave the church.

5. A healthy church has fellowship.  Church should never end with the closing prayer.  Healthy members stay after church to fellowship.  If we don’t talk to each other and learn of each other’s needs and activities, how can we pray for each other and deepen our relationships in the family of God? Fellowship outside of church in small groups is also needed so that we can bear each other’s burdens and pray for each other.

There you have it.  The 10 primary characteristics of a healthy church according to the experts.  How does your church measure up?   And more importantly, how do you?


Posted on June 26, 2018 at 6:40 PM

In my last blog, I introduced this topic and I told you more was to come.  So here it is.  We have already established that the goal of a healthy church needs to be spiritual vitality instead of numbers and programs and so on.   Now let’s look at some of the specific characteristics of a healthy church that should be evident.  Experts have agreed on 10 and there could be more.  I will start with the 5 more obvious ones this time and in the next blog, the less obvious ones.

Here they are:

1. A healthy church has members that enjoy coming to worship God and hear from God.  They want to be there each Sunday and hate to miss church.   For them it is not just a social gathering and it is not a sense of duty.  Healthy members love God passionately and sense God’s presence in the Sunday service.

2. A healthy church knows the importance of prayer.  It is very sad when our church services are full of worshipful music, engaging preaching of the Word, yet lack time spent in prayer.  How do we get half way through our service without a word of prayer uttered to God?  We need the power of His presence in our church service and He longs for us to communicate with Him in prayer.

3. A healthy church has leaders that keep God and His Word first in all decision making; and live lives of humility and love.  God has high expectations of church leaders that are clearly stated in Scripture.  Why?  Because how can a church be healthy if the leaders are not?    Leaders should desire to be held accountable and challenged when necessary.  They should also be knowledgeable in the Scriptures and its application.

4. A healthy church does not have financial problems.  Why?   Because money is never the priority.  Instead, seeking God and His will is paramount.   With God as the focus, members will give generously and give cheerfully; and only programs that God wants to bless will be initiated.  God provides for our needs so if He is the focus, finances will not run dry.

5. A healthy church is where members are involved in service.  These members don’t come to church with the motive of “What’s in it for me?”   They come with the humble attitude of service that Jesus displayed.  They come eager to volunteer where help is needed.  By serving we are each blessed.   We also build relationships and lasting friendships by getting involved.  We all have gifts and abilities that are needed in the church.  Look for a church that wants you to be involved and where many others already are.  If church has only been a place of Sunday attendance for you, ask God how He wants you to serve.  A healthy church has leaders ready to find a place for you to use your special talents.

Well there are the first 5 characteristics.  Straight forward enough.  The last 5 will be in the next blog and they are just as important but not so easy.   Stay tuned!


Posted on June 20, 2018 at 3:25 PM

I suppose many people would conclude that the signs of a healthy church are the number of people attending, the quality of the music, the engaging style of the sermons, the number of programs and the motivating personalities of the leaders.  I certainly like all of these characteristics.  But these are not at the top of God’s list.

So, where do I look to determine the spiritual health of a church?  Or should I even care?  If a church is meeting my needs, does it even matter if the church is unhealthy?  Of course, it does!  A healthy church can meet my needs too.  In fact, it will do a better job.

We all know there is no perfect church because there are no perfect people.  And every church has its own level of spiritual health reflected by the varied spiritual levels of its members.  We all start as babes in Christ but with time and nurturing become mature.  In a healthy church, people display a humble hunger for more of God in their lives.  

Spiritual vitality is what God cares about most.  My greatest individual need is spiritual health, so I should clearly care if my church is making this their priority.  I need to be careful of any church that is only striving to make me happy.  God cares more about my character than my comfort!

So, if spiritual vitality is the goal of a healthy church, then what are the signs of a healthy church?   What do I need to actually see, to know my church is spiritually healthy?  Experts have come up with 10 characteristics.  Some might surprise you.  Perhaps you can think of some while you wait for the next blog with the answers.